Do you really want a different life than the one you have now?
I’m assuming that you want to make it ‘better’ in some ways than the life experience you are currently living.
Do you realize that this means you will have to change things about yourself, not other people? Other people are not responsible for creating our lives. Our life experience is our responsibility and if you are blaming other people or other events/circumstances for your reality then you are playing at being a victim of forces outside of you.
The benefits of being a ‘victim’ are that you do not accept responsibility for anything you do not like about your life. It’s so easy to complain and moan about how life is unfair, but this is just being lazy and in no way benefits your purpose for being alive.
So, why am I alive: Is there a purpose to my life?
You are here to experience what being alive in a body, in a physical reality has to offer. The range of sensations, emotions, and experiences available to us, as human beings, is mind-blowing and it is by fully immersing ourselves in the experience of life that we are afforded opportunities for enormous personal growth and development. Embrace the experience with all of your heart as this is a very exciting opportunity for your soul!
You could, however, just choose to sit on the couch, watch TV and eat junk food all day, and complain about how life is not treating you fairly!
What! Seriously, how can this even be an option anymore?????
We have so much information available at our fingertips, all day, every day now that ‘not knowing or not understanding’ what’s going on is no longer a valid response. Sure it takes some of us longer to learn some stuff than others, but someone who is serious about wanting a better life will never let that deter them from seeking out information on how to improve their life experience.
However, learning lots of new information by itself will not change anything. We need to apply and then act upon what we have learned to set the wheels of change in motion to begin manifesting our desires. So, how do we transform our lives to create more abundance and specifically more health, wealth, happiness, and wisdom? We begin by learning how we created the reality that we are currently living.
Our current life is a manifestation of our past thoughts:
It is your past thoughts and actions that have manifested the life you are currently living and if you do not change the way you are currently thinking and acting, you will continue to create a future that is similar to your present. Our lives are not meant to be ‘soft and fluffy’ and full of ‘sugar and spice and all things nice.’ What would be the point of that? Where is the impetus for expansion, personal growth, and development when things are good all the time? That’s why we need ‘challenges.’
The challenges we are confronted with are what we need to face so that we can evolve into a more mature being. That’s all. The challenges we face are not there to ‘piss us off,’ defeat us, break us, or ruin us in any way what-so-ever. They are our best friends in the respect that they are revealing to us what we need to learn/overcome so that we will grow into a more aware, more conscious being. They are our best signposts, showing us how we can create a better future for ourselves.
As I’ve said before, If you keep thinking and doing the same things that you have always done before, your future life will be a continuation of your current life. Nothing significant will change as your thoughts are validating that which you currently believe about life, which is attracting your life circumstances to you. Go here to see my post on The Law of Attraction for a fuller explanation of this concept.
Fear is a huge problem for many people: But what is fear?
Many people are controlled by insecurity and fear. What they will and won’t do, what they can and can’t do are related to thoughts they have about all sorts of stuff. If we continue to have thoughts based around fear and insecurity we reinforce this as our current and future reality. To make a positive difference in our lives, we need to change our way of thinking.
Fear doesn’t actually exist. Ask yourself now, ‘What is fear?’
What answer did you get?
I bet you can make a list of the things that you fear, or feel uneasy about. But is this actually fear itself? Or is it just an emotion you have to certain things that you currently don’t like or try really hard to avoid?
So, stuff happens and we have an emotional reaction to it. The exact same event can happen to the person standing next to us and they may have an entirely different reaction, one that is not fearful. Why is that?
It’s because fear is an individual choice. All of your fears are specific to you, and they are because of the beliefs you have accumulated throughout your lifetime and decided to accept as part of your reality. That’s all, nothing more to it.
So what can you do to overcome your fears?
We do the same we do for every other challenge in our life. We begin by creating the very thoughts and emotions that are the opposite of fear and insecurity. In this case, we need to consciously appreciate all that we have in life and understand that we are supported by a divine plan that has our best interests at heart.
Our new vibrations take time to manifest: And that is OK!
This sounds easy, but I do realize that to change from our current reality is a process that takes time, and the amount of time will depend on how much conscious awareness we give to our thoughts each and every day. Life is a journey, not a destination, and our journey will head in a positive and uplifting direction daily if we can choose loving, supportive, thoughts more frequently than we have done in the past.
Having information about transforming our lives is not enough. We must then implement the knowledge we gain to transform our lives into an adventure we will be excited to be living. So, begin dreaming new big ideas and take the feelings of excitement that you experience, and use them to act so that you begin to move in the direction that you wish to go.
Feelings of love, joy, and appreciation always benefit and support us while our new thought vibrations begin to attract into our lives the expansion that our new thoughts have given birth to.
It’s up to you, and you alone, what your future will be like. So, no more excuses. If you begin now, your energy vibration will begin transforming now, and you ARE ALREADY attracting to you the life you desire.
If you want to wait until tomorrow to create your ideal life, that’s up to you. However, we all know that tomorrow never comes!
With love, appreciation, and respect for those that take up the challenge of personal transformation,